BEMÖTANDE OCH ATTITYD

När det kommer till stark och övervinnlig kärlek finns det ingenting som gör mig så berörd. För ett år sedan delade Brad Pitt med sig av sitt kärleksbrev till resten av världen, och förhoppningsvis har det fått en och annan tankeställare hos omgivningen. Hur bemöter vi egentligen våra medmänniskor? Det handlar inte bara om hur man bemöter sin partner eller tar sig ur en svacka i ett förhållande, utan också hur vi bemöter främlingar. Tittar vi bedömmande på alla vi möter på offentliga platser, eller låter vi varje individ få skapa sin egen uppfattning utifrån deras egna handlingar? Jag tror alla har lätta för att bli blinda i alla sorters relationer - djupa kärleksrelationer, liksom främlingen på Ica. Hat föder hat. Kärlek föder kärlek. Vilket värld vill du leva i? Hur vill du bli bemött av din partner, vän eller främling? Citatet "Behandla andra såsom du själv vill bli behandlad" må vara uttjatat, MEN det stämmer. Jag ställer öppna frågor utan svar, för att jag vill att människan ska tänka själv. På så blir vi klokare och så inspireras vi att hitta vår egen mening och teori om bemötande och attityd. Var inte rädd för ödmjukheten.
 
 
My wife got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children. She has lost 30 pounds and weighed about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs.She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of break up. Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…But then I decided to act on it. After all I’ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth.
She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders. I began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends.You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much. And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it.“
- BRAD PITT

 
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